Lessons & Advice for the deviants, yo!

I Won´t Settle For It.

I Won´t Compromise Who I Am.

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“When you´re always wanting, you never appreciate what you have. That´s when and why you lost it.” (11/15/2018) - "What´s that mean?", the writer asks as he leans back in his chair at the cafe. "The tab", I reply as I lean forward and pick up my taza, "you always want another coffee--you never take the time to appreciate, to enjoy, to savor, the cup that you currently have.  And, you always want another one, even before you are done with your current one, and then I have to Read more
“Don´t get used to feeling bad. When you feel bad, be aware of what you do. You can´t let it go but you can see how you are.” (11/13/2018) - The writer pauses; he adjusts his glasses. "So what you´re saying", he replies as he leans back in the chair at the cafe by the beach, "is not to change my behavior?" "I´m not saying that, exactly", I reply as I lean back in my chair, "but take some time to understand who you are--what you do and your habits.  Your fall-back pattern--what do you do when you feel bad Read more
“Careening in the direction of self-actualization, we dump everything that gives us pleasure and brings us down.” (9/29/2018) - I pause; I sip the coffee. "We are wired for pleasure--so it makes sense that we would seek that--but, when we find it, do we let it go?" "I have no clue what you´re talking about", the writer replies as he turns to look out the window in the cafe at the beach. "I want to live a life of pleasure--that´s how my mind works.  It makes sense that I Read more
“At some point, you´re just going to say fuck it and you´re going to do what you´ve been putting off (9/23/2018) - and that´s when your life is going to start." The writer shifts in his seat; how´d he know that I have been putting off buying an anniversary gift for my girlfriend? I continue speaking as I pick up the taza. "Until you get over the fear hump--the thing that you are putting off--you will be living out of fear and not love.  It´s not living--it´s existing.  It´s not happy--it´s flat-lining-" I Read more
“Show up. Leave a reputation. Never apologize. Look forward. Extreme optimism. Strong realism. Engage life.” (9/21/2018) - I pause; I think that I´m forgetting something. I clear my throat. "Yes", I tell the writer as I take a sip of coffee, "one more thing--forget all of these things and let them go." "But that sounds counter to say these things and then to not think about them?" "Well", I reply as I set down the taza, "you can´t balance on a unicycle if you are preoccupied with your technique." Read more
“All you can do is not contact me again”, I declare into the digitaltelephone as I hit the power button and the device shuts off. (9/20/2018) - "What was that about?", the writer replies as he turns his head to me. "Telemarketers", I reply as I pick up my taza at the small cafe by the beach, "they keep calling--I keep having to go through the same routine everytime." "You think that they would get the point?" "You would--but they are paid to be persistent." "Anything else that you can do?" "No", I reply as I take Read more
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SO… I´M VERY HAPPY IN MY LIFE.

I feel connected in my neighborhood. I am able to spend my time how I like. It took a lot of hard work to get here.

I didn´t think the response would be completely for me–but the negativity really surprised me.

it´s like you´ve got hate mail.

I figure that there´s other people out there in a similiar situation.

That´s why I created this blog.

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Everything can change, today, by starting on THAT.

You're going to get 24 hours today

How will you use it? Do something that matters today, yo!