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I Won´t Compromise Who I Am.

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“Don´t get used to feeling bad. When you feel bad, be aware of what you do. You can´t let it go but you can see how you are.” (11/13/2018) - The writer pauses; he adjusts his glasses. "So what you´re saying", he replies as he leans back in the chair at the cafe by the beach, "is not to change my behavior?" "I´m not saying that, exactly", I reply as I lean back in my chair, "but take some time to understand who you are--what you do and your habits.  Your fall-back pattern--what do you do when you feel bad Read more
“Careening in the direction of self-actualization, we dump everything that gives us pleasure and brings us down.” (9/29/2018) - I pause; I sip the coffee. "We are wired for pleasure--so it makes sense that we would seek that--but, when we find it, do we let it go?" "I have no clue what you´re talking about", the writer replies as he turns to look out the window in the cafe at the beach. "I want to live a life of pleasure--that´s how my mind works.  It makes sense that I Read more
“I´m a lover of the small things–holding hands, walking together, small gifts, intimate dinner.” I pause; I sigh. (9/28/2018) - "What happened to romance?", the writer asks. I shift in the seat; I turn my head to look out the window; I turn back to the writer. "Now, guys, treat it more like bromance when they want something--romanticism is gone.  It´s an act; it´s a aggressive demand; respectful behavior is forbidden; instead--rush in to the relationship then plateau at partners--not lovers." "I think that my girlfriend and I do it Read more
“Show up. Leave a reputation. Never apologize. Look forward. Extreme optimism. Strong realism. Engage life.” (9/21/2018) - I pause; I think that I´m forgetting something. I clear my throat. "Yes", I tell the writer as I take a sip of coffee, "one more thing--forget all of these things and let them go." "But that sounds counter to say these things and then to not think about them?" "Well", I reply as I set down the taza, "you can´t balance on a unicycle if you are preoccupied with your technique." Read more
“All you can do is not contact me again”, I declare into the digitaltelephone as I hit the power button and the device shuts off. (9/20/2018) - "What was that about?", the writer replies as he turns his head to me. "Telemarketers", I reply as I pick up my taza at the small cafe by the beach, "they keep calling--I keep having to go through the same routine everytime." "You think that they would get the point?" "You would--but they are paid to be persistent." "Anything else that you can do?" "No", I reply as I take Read more
“You prob shouldn´t stare into the camera when you take the picture–I mean… do you ever blink?”, I tell the writer. (9/11/2018) - "Well", he replies as he smooths his hair back, "I want to get my good side." "Writer", I reply as I adjust the aperature on the camera, "you´re not very good looking--you don´t have a good side.  Let´s just take a picture that shows that your hole did catch a penguin. Your hole building skills are top notch--but you prob shouldn´t try to pay your bills with your face." "That´s Read more


I feel connected in my neighborhood. I am able to spend my time how I like. It took a lot of hard work to get here.

I didn´t think the response would be completely for me–but the negativity really surprised me.

it´s like you´ve got hate mail.

I figure that there´s other people out there in a similiar situation.

That´s why I created this blog.

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